Monday, November 2, 2009

The Tactics to Make the Crying Stop.

A children crying is very distressing to parents. It is not known why children sometimes cry for long periods without being easily comforted. Parents often don’t know what to do to quieten and soothe their baby and can lose confidence very quickly. End up the children kena pukul like hell and the cry continue on and on…The mom yelled “STOP crying!” The children cried again, run to grandma for help. Later grandma kena tiu also coz try to protect. That’s where the family war begin……(sign).

How, how to stop that violence tragedy happens again?
Here, I have 1 tactic that it really works out.
a gentle patting on their back. Is was easy and fast to make the children stop crying.
While you are patting, try say something to make them comfort like :

“ oohhh….no crying, nanny sayang”..patting on their back..or


“ok ok mommy no beat/scold lioa, ok ok..hmm..ok ok…”..dun stop patting if their still crying…or


“yes..my sweetie pie…is alright…see car car!!!” continue patting on their back.

After awhile she/he will stop crying.
Is it amazing? If everyone know this simple tactic, I’m think the children will avoid from beaten like hell and some others family members not kena tiu lor!
This is my own experience. And no harm to get a try.

“You have a million reason not loved your husband/wife, but you have no single reason not loved your own kids”

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