How, how to stop that violence tragedy happens again?
Here, I have 1 tactic that it really works out.
a gentle patting on their back. Is was easy and fast to make the children stop crying.
While you are patting, try say something to make them comfort like :
“ oohhh….no crying, nanny sayang”..patting on their back..or
“ok ok mommy no beat/scold lioa, ok ok..hmm..ok ok…”..dun stop patting if their still crying…or
“yes..my sweetie pie…is alright…see car car!!!” continue patting on their back.
After awhile she/he will stop crying.
Is it amazing? If everyone know this simple tactic, I’m think the children will avoid from beaten like hell and some others family members not kena tiu lor!
This is my own experience. And no harm to get a try.
“You have a million reason not loved your husband/wife, but you have no single reason not loved your own kids”